Ah, the classic bridal shower game “He Said, She Said.” This game, also known as “Guess Who?!,” is a fun and interactive way to get guests laughing while learning more about the couple.
Below, I’ll walk you through how to play the He Said, She Said bridal shower game, share a ready-to-use question list, and give you access to a free printable template you can customize in Canva.
He Said She Said Bridal Shower Questions
One of the reasons the He Said, She Said game is so popular is because the questions are simple, relatable, and fun for guests of all ages. Below is a list of classic He Said She Said questions you can use for your bridal shower.
- Who initiated the first date?
- Who said “I love you” first?
- Who went in for the first kiss?
- Who handles all the planning?
- Who can be trusted most with a secret?
- Who knows their way around the kitchen?
- Who is usually the 1st to say “I’m sorry”?
- Who has better dance moves?
- Who is the bigger spender?
- Who is the stubborn one?
- Who keeps things organized?
- Who takes longer to get ready?
- Who is the better driver?
- Who is the more patient one?
- Who is most likely to cry on the big day?
These questions are included in the printable template below, but you can also customize or swap in your own to better fit the couple.
How to Play the He Said, She Said Bridal Shower Game
Step 1 | Customize your “He Said, She Said” printable game template.
Access the template and customize your color scheme to fit your bridal shower theme. Once you’re happy with your final game board, download your template.
Here’s a quick video showing you exactly how to customize the template.
Step 2 | Print your game boards
You can print them as 8.5″ x 11″ files at home, through a local print shop, or online printer. Make sure you have enough for the guests who have RSVPed, plus a few extras.
Step 3 | Ask the couple the questions
Before the shower, have the couple answer each of the questions listed above. Their responses will become your answer key for the game.
Step 4 | Pass out the game boards
At the shower, pass out your game boards to your guests along with writing utensils. Ask guests to complete their game board and guess who each statement is describing.
Step 5 | Reveal the answers
At some point during the shower, let guests know you’ll be sharing the answers to the game. Using your key, read each statement and the correct answer out load so guests can mark down which answers they guessed correctly.
Step 6 | Award the prize!
Confirm which one of your guests had the most statements correct. If there is a tie, have an additional question and answer handy (or just pack a few extra prizes!)
That’s it! Super easy and fun. Your guests will have a blast trying to guess, and just as much fun hearing the answers.
He Said She Said Game FAQs
Most bridal showers use 10–15 questions to keep the game fun without dragging it out. This also makes it easier to review answers at the end.
Yes! He Said She Said works especially well for co-ed or wedding showers since it focuses on both partners and keeps all guests engaged.
Absolutely. The free printable template can be edited in Canva so you can change colors, wording, or even swap in custom questions.
He Said She Said Printable Template
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More Bridal Shower Planning Resources: If you’re also responsible for planning the bridal shower, these resources can help round out your celebration:
- Find more hilarious bridal shower games to keep guests entertained from start to finish
- A complete guide to hosting a bridal shower, including a planning checklist and timeline
- Explore affordable bridal shower favors guests will actually love
Happy Planning!
xo,
Kelsey
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